Why Do You Keep Attracting the Same Broken People?
12 weeks of pattern recognition that changes how you see every relationship in your life.
Here’s what I see in my therapy office every single day: incredible individuals who can’t figure out why they keep ending up with partners who are emotionally unavailable. Or friends who only call when they need something and family members who treat them like emotional dumping grounds.
You think it’s them. But here’s the hard truth – it’s your attachment system calling in the same types of people over and over again. And until you understand how that works, you’ll keep getting the same results.
This bootcamp teaches you to see the patterns before you’re six months deep in another exhausting relationship.
What You Actually Learn
Week by week, you’ll decode your relationship blueprint: We start with the foundation tools. Then move through safe people recognition and understanding how shame drives your choices. You will also spot narcissistic and codependent dynamics and learn reprogramming the core wounds that keep you stuck.
You’ll discover your attachment style: More importantly, how it’s been sabotaging your relationships without you even knowing it. Are you anxiously attached and constantly seeking reassurance? Avoidant and pushing people away before they can hurt you? Understanding this changes everything.
You’ll learn to communicate across different attachment styles: People show care and emotion in different ways, and not everyone responds the same. When you understand their style, you can express yourself clearly, reduce misunderstandings, and build stronger, more trusting relationships.
You’ll understand your family role and how it still plays out: Whether you grew up as the caretaker, the scapegoat, or the golden child, these roles influence how you act and react even today. Recognising these patterns helps you stop repeating old dynamics in friendships, romantic relationships, and work connections.
You’ll stop giving relationship energy to people who can’t reciprocate: Not everyone deserves your time or care, and often, you won’t realise who drains you until it’s too late. By learning to spot these patterns, you can protect yourself while focusing on relationships that truly nurture and respect you. This way, your connections become more balanced and fulfilling.
Why Start With This Course?
This is the course I tell everyone to take first because everything else builds on these tools. You can’t heal relationship trauma without understanding how relationships actually work.
Furthermore, you won’t be able to set healthy boundaries if you don’t know what safe people look like. Think of this as learning the language before you travel to the country. Once you understand attachment styles, trauma responses, and family patterns, everything else makes sense.
What Changes
You start noticing patterns in people’s behavior, so you’re no longer caught off guard.
You stop making excuses for people who keep showing you exactly who they are.
After the course, you will start trusting your gut when it tells you something’s off instead of talking yourself out of red flags.
Most importantly: You stop settling for relationships that require you to shrink yourself to fit.
Ready to Finally Get It Right?
Chances are, you’re tired of wondering why connections keep slipping away. Why do the people you trust end up hurting you? Why do patterns repeat, no matter how careful you are?
What if it’s not you, and it’s not broken? What if you just haven’t had the guide that shows you how to navigate relationships with confidence?
This bootcamp gives you that roadmap with practical tools and the clarity you’ve been missing.
